Threesomes and Moresomes  

Naughtypursuit 52F  
1488 posts
10/28/2019 5:26 pm
Threesomes and Moresomes

Feminist pornographer Erika Lust and a slew of surveys say threesomes are the most popular sexual fantasies for both men and women.

A famed feminist porn director claims she knows the most common kink that men and women share.

Erika Lust says both sexes want threesomes and sex which are their most common fantasies.

Lust said moresomes are increasingly popular in the fantasy roster.
“(It’s) Threesomes or sex in general,” Lust told News.. “Not everybody wants to do it, but everybody is thinking about it or almost everybody would like to experience least a video situation.”

The sultry Swede, who has been making sexxx-rated cinema since 2007, said her claims are backed up by solid research — not just anecdotal evidence.

A 2018 study from Ball State University tried to get to the bottom of people’s sex fantasies. The study found that multiple-partner sex was top of the bawdy bucket list.

Study leader, Dr. Justin Lehmiller, said his team interviewed 4,5 people to determine what made men and women tick in the sack.
An eye-popping 89% admitted they’d fantasized about having threesomes. Interestingly, for women, it often includes their partner and not merely a of faceless strangers.

Straight males were more likely to lust over two women, while gender didn’t matter as much for female participants.

Recent findings in the American Sex Survey echoed that sentiment/
The poll showed that % of adults have had a threesome before while another 21% fantasized about hormone-charged hijinks with more than one person the same time.

Threesomes and sex were followed by BDSM and infidelity as other popular fantasies.

Lust, 42, now lives in Barcelona and says she’s on a mission to give women a voice in the multi-billion dollar porn industry.
She wants to create a generation of “informed masturbators” and Lust is hoping these women will change the frequently misogynistic porn industry. The result will be “saved sex lives” and relationships.
“We are all so afraid that other people will not accept our kinks,” Lust said. “That we are strange. That we are perverse, that we are different from everyone else and the funny thing is that we are not.

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I myself have had mfm which were fantastic experiences. I have met couples but there was always something off in my meets, probably not enough experience and screening on my part to find the right couple.



What about you had a threesome or more, still on the bucket list?

Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/28/2019 5:27 pm


Mike24EastLA 29M
11 posts
10/28/2019 5:32 pm

well to be honest I've been in a few MFM 3somes and part of a gangbang twice. still hoping to have a FMF 3some some day...


Lovetopleaseu069 34M
5 posts
10/28/2019 5:35 pm

Yes had fmf and mfm, all good fun x


escap3wme 45M
1 post
10/28/2019 5:43 pm

Never had the pleasure but always a fantasy.


justaguyinalaska 53M  
220 posts
10/28/2019 6:36 pm

Given that pornography has been with us a few thousand years, that we have only enjoyed 35 years of feminist porn is indicative of how far we have yet to go to achieve an honest sex-positive balance. Filmmakers like Erika Lust may indeed hold some of the keys to eroding the stereotyping and misogyny that make sexual relations- to put it mildly- *complicated*.

While the data continue to confirm that men dominate porn audiences, women now comprise 25% of Pornhub's visitors- which, by the way, reflects a 10% rise in US female viewers in just one year (in other parts of the world, growth of female interest is more spectacular). In short, women are revealing a taste for visual gratification that belies the stereotype that this is a Y-chromosome phenomenon.

Also to your point, women watch pornos involving DP, GB and 3somes more than twice as often as men. And I believe they are onto *something*. That said, I share your experience that *threesomes and moresomes* do not often achieve the *bliss* so tantalizingly displayed in pornos. There is an exponentially greater requirement to share and be shared, as well as a need to not overthink the frenetic vortex surrounding you. However, if you stay calm and give as good as you get, it will all work out fine.


newsubby101 50M  
142 posts
10/28/2019 6:39 pm

I have had a few my ex girlfriend ,which was amazing loved them had 1 fmf, but we had more mfm,it is always exciting to see your mate enjoying her self .


s2ndegree 60M  
9605 posts
10/28/2019 6:41 pm

" I would be perfectly satisfied and would rather be with someone who said"
if that's what you're looking for you can take a hike!"
I'm pretty content with having evolved!

Using more than all the road!


yourbodyguard_2 54M
33 posts
10/28/2019 6:44 pm

Well I wonder if as many people who say they have had threesomes have really had them.
It is still a fantasy for me


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/28/2019 7:04 pm

    Quoting yourbodyguard_2:
    Well I wonder if as many people who say they have had threesomes have really had them.
    It is still a fantasy for me
I am sure there are those that embellish their sexperience. I have met some of them and it all changes when you meet and its the two of you alone in a room. Honest conversations lead to more adventurous sex in my opinion regardless of experience.


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/28/2019 7:06 pm

    Quoting justaguyinalaska:
    Given that pornography has been with us a few thousand years, that we have only enjoyed 35 years of feminist porn is indicative of how far we have yet to go to achieve an honest sex-positive balance. Filmmakers like Erika Lust may indeed hold some of the keys to eroding the stereotyping and misogyny that make sexual relations- to put it mildly- *complicated*.

    While the data continue to confirm that men dominate porn audiences, women now comprise 25% of Pornhub's visitors- which, by the way, reflects a 10% rise in US female viewers in just one year (in other parts of the world, growth of female interest is more spectacular). In short, women are revealing a taste for visual gratification that belies the stereotype that this is a Y-chromosome phenomenon.

    Also to your point, women watch pornos involving DP, GB and 3somes more than twice as often as men. And I believe they are onto *something*. That said, I share your experience that *threesomes and moresomes* do not often achieve the *bliss* so tantalizingly displayed in pornos. There is an exponentially greater requirement to share and be shared, as well as a need to not overthink the frenetic vortex surrounding you. However, if you stay calm and give as good as you get, it will all work out fine.
Agreed overthinking has been a detriment to me at times. I think the key when meeting couples is that not always determining before hand that both are on the same page. Alcohol seems to be a big factor for me to.


BiggLala 47F  
27368 posts
10/28/2019 7:24 pm

I've had two threesomes, both with men I met through here. The first one was...meh, but the second was so much better. I still haven't experienced my ultimate MMF fantasy, though (yes, the order of the letters matter). It'll probably remain a fantasy.

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Looknfind18 67M  
4003 posts
10/28/2019 7:31 pm

Had a MFM on two occasions, it was lots of fun. On one occasion ended up naked with a group of five, 3F and 2 M, fun.


YoJObud 45M
11 posts
10/28/2019 7:42 pm

i would luv to do MMF or MFF...so sexy


azriel1970 49M  
27901 posts
10/28/2019 7:44 pm

I have had a few MFM and FMF as well. I would love to do more but it depends on who all is involved!


PAWAPh 43M
9670 posts
10/28/2019 7:50 pm

Hey, Np.

*An Interesting Blog*

"What about you had a threesome or more, still on the bucket list?"
I Had A Threesome and I'd Like A Moresome!

Jack


Mr00Fun4U 60M  
560 posts
10/28/2019 8:15 pm

A very interesting study and kind of psyched that I can at least participate. I have only had one threesome in my life. It was a FFM set up from a Christmas party. I had one your Woman hitting on me when two other young Ladies came over and simply stated why have one when two is more fun.

The best part was it was a work Christmas party on a Thursday night so we all had work the next day. The Ladies of course left my house and merely switched dresses. What was cool was they gave me ornaments from a place called "Things Remembered". It was two gold ornaments with photos inside. One photo was them in their dress and the other was them in each other's dress like that day when they went to work.

Who said there is no Santa Claus!

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mc_justmc 59M  
5256 posts
10/28/2019 8:34 pm

I've had mfm, fmf, couple swap, and group free for all. I don't really fantasize about any of it much anymore. I do fantasize about individual women. I really feel boring now.


thinksmiles1 62M/63F
153 posts
10/28/2019 8:34 pm

three, four, more... It can all be wonderful with the right people.


Paulxx001 62M
13104 posts
10/28/2019 9:53 pm

Threesomes are a younger adult's dreams.
Been there... done that... multiple times. I think once you've tried it , the thrill is gone? 🤔 At least MFM!
Now FMF... can be fun!
Yeah... threesomes? Nah... Give me one on one with a creative lover.
Have you ever tried it? The bed gets crowded. lol 😂
I guess ya have to be in the mood. But to call it 'the most popular fantasy', might be over-stating it!
What do you think? 🤔 🔥 💦 😮 🎃

... is there another way to look at it...
Can you? Only One In Ten Can Read This


Larryx357 26M
9 posts
10/28/2019 10:39 pm

A dream....


flowerkings2012 56M
4147 posts
10/29/2019 3:56 am

Only really into straight one on one with a woman, though there is the odd moment when wanking that I may tink of two women being with me. That MFF scenario tends to exist to experience two sensuous female tongues and mouths kissing and licking and swirling aover my cock and balls and cock head

I did once have a short 3sum with, at my time, best mate and his partner. Frankly, deeply unsatisfying as I felt that I was just a total spare prick. Not fun at all, and no desire to go there again


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/29/2019 4:32 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I've had two threesomes, both with men I met through here. The first one was...meh, but the second was so much better. I still haven't experienced my ultimate MMF fantasy, though (yes, the order of the letters matter). It'll probably remain a fantasy.
I agree the order of the letter and capitalizing them matter I have a fantasy as well that will probably remain as such but you never know.


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/29/2019 4:33 am

    Quoting Looknfind18:
    Had a MFM on two occasions, it was lots of fun. On one occasion ended up naked with a group of five, 3F and 2 M, fun.
A moresome would require a big comfort level with the people there for me.


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/29/2019 4:34 am

    Quoting azriel1970:
    I have had a few MFM and FMF as well. I would love to do more but it depends on who all is involved!
Definitely agree, you need to enjoy the people in the room with you.


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/29/2019 4:35 am

    Quoting Mr00Fun4U:
    A very interesting study and kind of psyched that I can at least participate. I have only had one threesome in my life. It was a FFM set up from a Christmas party. I had one your Woman hitting on me when two other young Ladies came over and simply stated why have one when two is more fun.

    The best part was it was a work Christmas party on a Thursday night so we all had work the next day. The Ladies of course left my house and merely switched dresses. What was cool was they gave me ornaments from a place called "Things Remembered". It was two gold ornaments with photos inside. One photo was them in their dress and the other was them in each other's dress like that day when they went to work.

    Who said there is no Santa Claus!

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Lol Merry Christmas to you


MyBaffies 50M
3865 posts
10/29/2019 4:35 am

I'm constantly just two women away from a threesome.

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Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/29/2019 4:36 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've had mfm, fmf, couple swap, and group free for all. I don't really fantasize about any of it much anymore. I do fantasize about individual women. I really feel boring now.
Am sure the one on one is not boring with you


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/29/2019 4:38 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Threesomes are a younger adult's dreams.
    Been there... done that... multiple times. I think once you've tried it , the thrill is gone? 🤔 At least MFM!
    Now FMF... can be fun!
    Yeah... threesomes? Nah... Give me one on one with a creative lover.
    Have you ever tried it? The bed gets crowded. lol 😂
    I guess ya have to be in the mood. But to call it 'the most popular fantasy', might be over-stating it!
    What do you think? 🤔 🔥 💦 😮 🎃
I must be younger because I would still enjoy a MfM. The FmF I havent had much success and I have ruled it out now. A creative one on one works but that creativity could include adding another n'est ce pas?


Keppel37 51M
3536 posts
10/29/2019 7:24 am

Oh yes J..... Who wouldn't be interested in a threesome.... Had a little involvement in one a few years back.... Never had the opertunity to repeat though.... To this day it still brings a smile (not to mention a few other effects)....

I believe we are living in a golden time as far a ladies and their sexuality is concerned.... After years of repression it has become more acceptable for a lady to express herself and, for me, that is the sexiest thing ever...

Mxxx


HermanG67 52M
7866 posts
10/29/2019 7:35 am

I found the dynamics in a MFM was more to my liking than FMF


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
10/29/2019 9:42 am

    Quoting Keppel37:
    Oh yes J..... Who wouldn't be interested in a threesome.... Had a little involvement in one a few years back.... Never had the opertunity to repeat though.... To this day it still brings a smile (not to mention a few other effects)....

    I believe we are living in a golden time as far a ladies and their sexuality is concerned.... After years of repression it has become more acceptable for a lady to express herself and, for me, that is the sexiest thing ever...

    Mxxx
Would love to express myself with you


Mcintoronto4 44M  
13 posts
10/29/2019 10:01 am

i have had two...both much younger than now.....i can safely say it would likely be more exciting now that im older. i know what i like, more patient to ask what partners like etc.....at the time they happened i think we were all just amazed we were doing it haha


XHamburgDave 76M  
9081 posts
10/29/2019 11:40 am

Hi Jo, Sadly I have never had a 3 some, but despite my age FMF or MFM are still on my Bucket List


Tmptrzz 57F  
68247 posts
10/29/2019 1:37 pm

Some great information hun, thanks for sharing it with us. For me I just want to enjoy sexy with my hubby again..I hope you have a great day..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


voyeur2017 56M
701 posts
10/30/2019 9:22 am

I've enjoyed a FMF 3-some on several occasions. Chemistry is very important. I often find myself spread too thin..........


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 59M
3607 posts
10/30/2019 9:47 am

My first 3sum was a FMF type, with twin gals I was dating (YES some twins share everything!) and our ages will remain unsaid. We had many such over the 3 years we dated too. My second partners in a 3sum was of the MFM variety, that eventually just morphed into a MFMF 4sum as the session continued. Interesting as it was my first time being near a naked guy also engaged in sex, tho to be sure we were both straight. We also had several of these 4sums over the next year & half, and while the two gals experimented, we guys did NOT. My next group experience was with my football team & six cheerleaders in our team shower room, not a GB, just a very wett orgy, and all straight as far as I saw. Many MMMF combos that session. And next was also my football team again, on the bus returning from a winning game, and again the same six cheerleaders. After that, it was a long 12 years of one on one sessions with my first wife, but upon our separation, the gal that brought me back into a sex frame of mind was into 3sums and arranged several for us, MFM as well as FMF, and it continued from that time on ! I like MFM 3sums best when the other guy is as straight as I am, and the gal tween us gets ALL of our attentions !


rakordubro 53M  
12 posts
10/31/2019 11:32 am

Personally never had one, but if both men were were helping the woman to enjoy, rather than both using her as a sex toy, it might be more popular with women. That said, my 3some fantasy is trying to pleasure 2 women, with each woman helping me out with the other at critical times. I don't know how the letters should be arranged or capitalized for that.


charmer961 60M  
14462 posts
10/31/2019 7:46 pm

If the chemistry between all three is good, they can be a lot of fun. Most men fantasize about FMF, but one woman can satisfy two men more easily than the other way around.


VinnFromTheBlock 59M
572 posts
11/3/2019 5:34 am

I'm short 2 woman for a 3 some,,,hint hint Naughty


AZ60ish2 60M
28 posts
11/7/2019 7:06 am

MFM is my favorite sexual act. Love to DP a hotwife with her horny hubby, love to enter her ass while she is riding hubbies cock. So hot!

Played with one married couple, when I entered her ass, she gushed all over his hard cock in her pussy, she soaked the sheets!


Funtime_405 37M  
1 post
11/7/2019 9:56 pm

I prefer more intimate settings, but more can be fun sometimes for sure! Say hi on chat sometime?


Eljnwal 57M
37 posts
11/14/2019 12:51 pm

Still only fantasy to be in a threeway


Newcoupleseok 42M/40F
26 posts
11/15/2019 10:44 pm

A little of everything and would love more!


humm169 48M
98 posts
11/18/2019 6:07 am

had one and loved it she came at least 10 times


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
11/18/2019 2:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Lol alas at least its still achievable.....


stopbyandsayboo 47M
388 posts
11/18/2019 2:52 pm

Not a sharing type of man with me or my partner

Oh well I guess I am vanilla if I only want to be with one lady lol

Life is short, Break the Rules. Forgive quickly, kiss slowly and make love lots xo


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
11/18/2019 6:47 pm

    Quoting stopbyandsayboo:
    Not a sharing type of man with me or my partner

    Oh well I guess I am vanilla if I only want to be with one lady lol
Being with only one person does not necessarily mean you are vanilla. We all have our definitions and hopefully we explain them to partners or perspective partners. People often ask if I am kinky, my response is define kinky.

Not sharing can be defined differently - not sharing ones heart or not sharing ones body. Having said that if it was her utmost fantasy would you not as a giver consent?


Oralandy53 66M
45 posts
11/19/2019 5:37 am

I've had a FMF threesome. It was always a fantasy. Really enjoyed it. Especially if the females love playing with each other. Love watching that for a bit and then joining in as they are 69'ing with each other.


Islandcraftbeer 47M
19 posts
11/19/2019 9:56 am

I've had a couple of MFM. enjoyed it alot.


Naughtypursuit 52F  
2366 posts
11/19/2019 7:09 pm

    Quoting  :

from different people?


rm_1littlehose 57M
242 posts
11/21/2019 1:41 pm

I wish!
A FMF threesome with me in the middle, front and then rear, has been a bucket list item since I learned to masturbate! i want to feel my cock deep in a pussy while my face is smothered in a pussy!
I was married and together with my EX for over 30 years. She was not sexually exploitative. My girlfriend now knows of my bucket list item but is not Bi or willing to share me. So it will probably never come to light!
Thanks for the blog! Keeps the juices flowing!


WinterIceKing88 44M
39 posts
11/22/2019 9:52 am

Would like to


Big_nickel_05 56M
4 posts
11/23/2019 9:28 pm

standard member looking to meet in Sudbury/north bay area....


Useme2plzu123 42F

11/24/2019 5:58 am

It is a fantasy for me. More mfm than fmf. Not sure it will ever actually happen tho


Playtodaynow2323 40M
13 posts
11/24/2019 11:42 am

That is hot


CumsDeep 58M
71 posts
11/25/2019 12:03 pm

I do lotsa onesomes.


soccerdad469 50M
3 posts
11/26/2019 2:02 pm

I had a mfm 30 years ago. Would like a FFM.


mtech76 43M
48 posts
11/26/2019 6:56 pm

MMF,MFM, & FMF ...loved them all and nothing better than sharing and exploring your sexuality with a partner


VinnFromTheBlock 59M
572 posts
11/26/2019 7:59 pm

Im short 2 woman for a 3 some!!!!!!!


biseoulcpl 46M/34F

11/26/2019 10:22 pm

we regularly enjoy threesomes, both mmf and ffm, but we probably do foursomes and group swapping more


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