I want to be open and transparent. I am married, but my wife really doesn’t have the same sexual drive I have, never has. I am looking for someone in a similar situation who can be discreet, and wants to have that physical and sexual connection occasionally. I want to explore my sexual desires and fantasies, escape the boring missionary wham bam thank you mam I’ve been stuck with for 20 yrs. Also interested in couples and groups. I really want to experience everything I’ve been missing out on and explore new things. I have recent negative STD (HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis) tests from 8/25/23. Vasectomy done years ago and confirmed no soldiers making their way in ejaculate! I cannot host at my place but would be willing to meet at a hotel to grab drinks and head to a room for fun. I’m open to starting things off with a conversation and letting things blossom organically, let’s connect!

My Ideal Person A woman that is interested in meeting once in a while to be pleased and pleasure me. Not looking for a serious relationship at this time. I really just am looking for someone that wants to a friends with benefits type relationship. Someone who is willing to be discreet is definitely something I am looking for. I have pics for you to view at your request, just ask.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Korn, Slipknot, A Perfect Circle, Tool etc.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, willing to try just about anything.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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