*OMG* reduced to "standard" member! To all my friends that I can no longer view your profile...I miss you! To those wishing to say hi..PLEASE DO SO! Moved back to Denver now! VERY single :( Have been in the lifestyle for over 5 years wanting to be more involved with the right ONE. Is that you? I am over 7 years divorced after a 20 year marriage that lacked solid communication and passion. The two things that make up a great deal of who I am. Passion and communication are qualities that I extend and expect from those I allow to be close to me. I am a great listener as well as an awesome safe friend. That being said, I am approachable. My sense of humor is endless and laughing is a must! I have learned that dealing with drama may at times present itself, however, I have gone to great lengths to live and conduct my life in a drama free zone. I am basically a peaceful per and seek to surround myself with likeminded people who choose to live in such a manner. Those who are confident and secure in who and what they are, with quality, intelligence and a light heart. I do not dwell in the negative realm. I am confident and secure in my passions and desires as well as my wants and needs. I am respectful of ones wishes, desires and limits. Who am I? I guess I am finding out who I am and what I really want. I am a dominant man and am adventurous. That being said, I have always had an "adventurous" side to me that I touched on before my marriage. But then, life happened and, well, I am now free to fully explore and experience those desires I have had, and longed for. I am interested in exploring my limits and those of a partner, yours perhaps. My desire is to watch, touch, feel, make you scream, long for, and anticipate the next sensation. I understand my limitations and I am willing to learn about you as well as myself. I am not a total work in progress as I am very confident and grounded. I have just entered a new arena and plan on winning. What am I looking for? At times I long for and crave a companion, a good friend. One who will endeavor to understand me. One who offers a peaceful solitude in a positive way with constructive and encouraging words with softness. I am living above it all. I have come to learn that relationships are about individual choice and I seek to find someone who is willing to choose and relish in a relationship. WITH HONESTY!!! Honesty to herself and me. I take pleasure in women in leather & lace or silk & satin. Soft & sensuous or hard & sexy. Confidence is such an alluring, sexy attribute and captivates my attention. I enjoy looking into a girls eyes as she anticipates the next unscripted act., a fantasy, soon to be realized. I am mostly a private per. Patience is a huge longsuit and I am a great listener. The gratification I crave the most is helping others. In short, I am an awesome safe friend. Being Italian I am confident and secure in my passions and desires. Attention to detail is for me an easy thing. I love to surprise and give. I know how to treat a Lady and desire one that knows how to receive and welcomes caring attention. I seek such a woman that appreciates and truly enjoys affection and attention. One not afraid of PDA. Cuddling is so important. Holding hands is such a lost art but so sweet. And shall we talk of kissing? Ever kissed for 3 hours, softly, wildly, passionately and at moments deeply all the while pausing only to look at the one you are embraced with? That is reality.!! In closing, I believe that pride in ones self and any task doing is a quality that too often gets overlooked. I should also state that I do love phone conversations. With a deep sexy voice one might say that I give good phone. And I would NOT deny it!! ;) With all that said, if you are a grounded Lady with confidence I would welcome any invitations. rrco78 is my location at hot male if you are so inspired after you view my profile!.CIAO, BV Oh yeah, I should mention that I have a tongue to die for and I know how to use it. I have a wild imagination with lots of patience and a desire to take the necessary time to please my partner. I am into exploring all ideas no matter how kinky or nasty they are.{=}{=}o-o{=}o-o

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who is into a relationship for wild sessions and a long term companionship. Someone who enjoys being catered to and pleased while still seeking to please. Can you give AND receive?{=}

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd, Zeplin, Stones, Who, Kansas, Green Day, Blink
182, Bob Segar, Martin, Dylan, Petty

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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