Greetings. I am an intelligent, college-educated,nerdy 40 year old man looking for companionship. I'm 6'4, a little chubby, built like a giant bald teddy bear. New to the Seattle area, took a promotion within in my company, and moved here from Michigan in September I am in an open relationship with an awesome lady who has not been able to move here yet because of family circumstances. I love to cook, spend time with friends, and go out and have a good time. I studied abroad and love to travel, and learn about the world. I work full-time second shifts for a dynamic and diverse international company which, but I am generally free Sunday through Tuesday. I enjoy bedroom doming and some kink, but this is not a requirement for me. To the extent I would identify as a dom, it's in that I like helping people push their limits and explore new things about themselves.

My Ideal Person I’m looking to meet someone who is intelligent, and can hold a conversation as I tend to have a strong personality, yet at the same time I am very laid-back and usually the first to laugh at myself. I love a woman who is not afraid to express herself and her needs in and out of bed.

I am not looking for anything serious, but would like to meet someone to get togather with once or twice a week for dinner or or converation or play.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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